It doesn't get better
Things naturally go wrong. The tide keeps coming, twice a day, relentlessly.
Life doesn't get any easier as we grow older and there's no amount of work that will get you absolute peace.
If it feels draining it's because of your expectation that it won't be so.
Accept that the world is messy and chaotic and unpredictable and that life will always find ever more creative ways to break what is unbreakable.
When you find yourself in the eye of the hurricane, accept that it won't last, and appreciate the precious moments of stillness.